Simplifying Life: Our Month-Long Journey to Happiness and Financial Freedom

Life has a way of accumulating clutter—both physical and mental. As Tatiana and I approach our third wedding anniversary, we’ve realized it’s time for a change. We’re dedicating this August to simplifying our lives, improving our habits, and refocusing on what truly matters. Here’s how we’re making it happen:

1. Decluttering Our Space and Minds

It started with a simple act: shredding old papers from our rental property’s garage. This small step snowballed into a full-blown decluttering mission. I even tackled my smartphone, deleting 50 unnecessary apps, including Facebook. It’s amazing how much mental space these digital possessions were occupying.

The process is liberating. Each item we remove feels like a weight lifted off our shoulders. We’re creating room for new experiences and focusing on what truly adds value to our lives.

2. A Dry Month Challenge

We’ve decided to go alcohol-free for August. It’s not just about saving money (though we’ve spent $1,700 on alcohol in the past year). It’s about breaking habits that don’t serve us and prioritizing our health.

Our biggest test came during a weekend at my best friend’s house. Instead of indulging in their extensive wine collection, we stayed up late singing karaoke and dancing—all without a drop of alcohol. It wasn’t always easy, but rewarding.

To satisfy the urge for a special drink, we’ve been reaching for organic lemonade with frozen blueberries. It’s refreshing and gives us something to hold, tricking our brains into new, healthier habits.

3. Embracing Active Living

For my 10th work anniversary, I chose a bike as my gift—not for me, but for Tatiana. Assembling it brought back fond memories of my teenage bike repair days. Now, we’re eagerly waiting for the heatwave to pass so we can hit the Chester Valley Rail Trail together.

I’m also recommitting to my fitness routine. My goal is to do some form of physical activity—be it dancing, yoga, or weight lifting—at least three times a week. It’s a struggle, but one worth fighting for.

4. The Financial Side of Simplicity

While our changes weren’t primarily motivated by money, the financial benefits are undeniable:

1. Decluttering means we won’t need to upgrade to a larger living space.
2. Reducing alcohol consumption saves money now and potentially on future healthcare costs.
3. Staying active through low-cost activities like biking keeps us healthy without breaking the bank.

The Path to True Happiness

These changes are about more than just saving money or getting healthier. They’re about creating a life that aligns with our values and brings us joy. By simplifying our surroundings, breaking unhealthy habits, and focusing on experiences rather than possessions, we’re paving the way for a happier, more fulfilling life.

As we continue this journey, we’re excited to see where it leads. After all, isn’t that what life is about? Constant growth, improvement, and the pursuit of happiness?

What about you? Are you making any changes to simplify your life or boost your happiness? We’d love to hear your stories and suggestions in the comments below!

Remember, you don’t need to wait for a new year to make positive changes. Every day is an opportunity to take a step towards the life you want. So why not start your own month of change today?